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My postpartum love life has been nonexistant. What can I do?

Mon, Sep 15th 2008

I had a baby over a month ago but ever since i was pregnant my boyfriend has lost interest in me and its more focused on TV or other things. sometimes i feel like when we are out he is looking at other woman, like he is ready to trade me in or something. I tried to be romantic with him but its all a joke to him or he doesn't want to, he's got better things to do. I am so depressed at times because I will try to throw myself at him and he doesn't know i exist. What can I do to get the physical parts back? I want him to touch me and kiss me like he used to do.

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